12 Ways to Feel Sexy Instantly

12 Ways to Feel Sexy Instantly | Sedruola Maruska

The other day as I was getting dressed I started to feel sexy instantly. I began to feel more excited, confident and sexy as I completed my look and wondered why that was.

As I thought about it I realized there were a number of things I did when I wanted to feel sexy instantly. But was it just me? Couldn’t be, so I posed the question to a few friends and on my Facebook Page. Sure enough, many of the things I thought made me feel sexy instantly, also worked for others!

Hallelujah! We can feel sexy instantly with some of the easiest things in the world. . . so here’s my list!

12 Ways to Feel Sexy Instantly | Sedruola Maruska

1 – All Things Spa

Getting a pedicure, manicure, facial or massage can make you feel sexy instantly! Maybe it’s because you’re super relaxed, or maybe it’s because you’ve been pampered and that’s enough to make anyone feel super sexy! Do it yourself or get it done, either way, when you’re done, you’re sexy!

2 – Matching Underwear

When you put on a matching bra & panty set it not only makes you feel sexy instantly, it makes you feel powerful! The strongest colors are red and black (I think it’s because of the “naughty” factor) but whatever color you choose will work.

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3 – Music

For me it’s Jazz or Soft Rock. For you it may be heavy dance beats or classical music. Whatever the music, cranking it up and allowing yourself to be wrapped up in the tunes will definitely make you feel sexy instantly.

4 – Candlelight

Dim the lights and light the candles. The “mood lighting” will definitely help you feel sexy instantly. Make is a scented candle for added vibes.

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5 – New Hair

There’s nothing like doing something new with or to your hair to help you feel sexy instantly! Color, cut, curl, straighten, no matter the change, if you fall in love with the style you’ll instantly feel and exude sexiness!

6 – Makeup

Specifically focusing on your lips and eyes. Wearing lashes or pluming up your own lashes with mascara will compel you to use your eyes in a different way. Why, because you’ll feel sexy instantly and want to project that.

Wearing red or a bold color lipstick will also entice you to use your lips or even move your mouth differently as you speak. You’ll also want to smile more, that that is a great way to project the sexiness you feel.

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7 – Heels

I know when I want to make any outfit feel sexy instantly all I have to do is is pair it with heels. There’s something about adding inches to your height that compels you to strut, which is a total projection of how sexy you feel.

8 – Glass of Wine

Quietly enjoying a nice glass of wine is an instant sexy booster. You can do it anywhere you’d like (I sometimes find myself working, on the floor in my closet with a glass of wine. Yes, it feels very sexy. Don’t drink? You can get the same feeling by mixing yourself a virgin drink in a wine glass. As my sister once said as she drank her juiced beet, kale and apple drink from a wine glass, “everything tastes better in a wine glass.”

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9 – Dressing Up

Putting on an amazing outfit, doing your makeup just right and strapping on some heels will make you feel sexy instantly! Whether you have somewhere to go, or you’ve decided to make & have dinner at home with your bae, dressing up in “the works” will always make the evening worthwhile. Start with this cute black & white off shoulder top 🙂

10 – Food

Chocolate covered strawberries. Chocolate. Sushi. Fries. There are just certain foods you eat that make you feel sexy instantly. It’s not necessarily about the food itself, but about the emotions, company or ideas it evokes.

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11 – Flirting

When I want to feel sexy instantly or I’m already feeling sexy, flirting with my hubby always ups the feeling. Whether it’s your significant other, the waiter or the cute young valet parking your car, flirting will make you feel sexy instantly. There is magic in flirting since it makes both parties feel good, especially when nothing needs to come of it.

12 – Sunglasses

Need I say more?! When you’re ready to go and that last touch, sunglasses, goes on, you feel that instant sexy feeling! One look in the mirror lets you know, you’re right! Find your style, or the fad, throw them on and you’re ready to roll!

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Do Them All

For me, the most fun thing is combining a few of these to get maximum float! Wearing bold lipstick, getting totally glammed up and going out for drinks is the ultimate in sexy rush. It’s the reason people go out on dates. It’s the reason married couples need to make time for dating. Feeling sexy in the presence of your significant other is bliss.

I think it may be time to set a date with your man, woman or girlfriends and feel sexy instantly!

Do you have something you do that’s not on the list? We’d love to know what you do to feel sexy instantly! How do you tap into your inner Goddess? Share in the comments below, I’m all for sharing!

Black and White Off Shoulder Top

Black and White Off Shoulder Top | Sedruola Maruska

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Over the 4th of July weekend we were prepping to have friends over for a cookout. I’d purchased this super cute black and white off shoulder top and hadn’t had a chance to wear it. I wanted to try it out. As I looked through my closet for something to pair it with, I found a pair of shorts. I’d been waiting to pair them with the right top.

Black and White Off Shoulder Top | Sedruola MaruskaMy locs were newly bleached and I was in love with the results! I pulled on the top, my super cute shorts and threw on my wedge black & white heels. I took one look and knew I had to spread the word.

Black and White Off Shoulder Top | Sedruola Maruska

This black and white off shoulder top is incredibly cute & comfy! It’s made to be a crop top. The nice thing is, because of the slightly ruffled bottom, you don’t have to show your belly. (I opted to let it do it’s thing and it fell just right)

Black and White Off Shoulder Top | Sedruola Maruska

I ran outside with my tripod, phone and selfie stick. As I set up for a few shots, a friend, who was coming to our cookout, walked up our driveway. He was a little early and immediately asked if this was a “dress up” thing. Internally I laughed, externally I responded that it wasn’t. Since he was just checking on something he quickly made his exit and I continued my photo shoot.

Black and White Off Shoulder Top | Sedruola Maruska

The top is an instant “dressy” look if needed. I enjoyed that, but it meant I changed after taking the photos because I didn’t want to make my guests feel uncomfortable. I being so “dressy” and all. 🙂 I’ll be taking it for it’s maiden voyage when I go to dinner & a movie with hubby our next date night.

Rememeber the cold shoulder top we talked about before, this is along the same lines of timeless style and fun to wear!


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What is Authenticity and Are you Authentic?

What is Authenticity and Are You Authentic? | Sedruola Maruska

I was stalking browsing my Instagram feed the other day when something I read stopped me dead in my tracks.

The reason I stopped wasn’t because I was so in awe of the information, but that it slapped me directly between the eyes. The whole tableau was wrong which is why it knocked the air out of me for a few moments.

[wp_ad_camp_4]Here was an influencer (judging my the number of followers they had as well as likes & comments) saying something to disparage other influencers. It was a simple sentence “these people out here trying to say they’re authentic with their curated feeds, makeup and clothes.”

What? In looking through her feed it was clearly ‘curated’ because it was lovely. But why question someone else’s authenticity, hold yourself up as ‘better’ when you’re doing the same thing?

The Question

So, I since I’m on a journey of self-discovery this year, I began to ask the question. What is authenticity? How do I know if I’m being authentic or not? We’re all out here doing our thing. You may be all about makeup while the next person is all about curing disease, is one more authentic than the other?

If my area of expertise asks that I dress a certain way most of the time and you happen to catch me “out of character” does that make me inauthentic?

What is Authenticity and Are You Authentic? | Sedruola Maruska

I grew up in a religion with many rules one being no jewelry. Mind you people could wear expensive watches, brooches and other adornments, but shame on you if your ears were pierced. What’s the difference? It always perplexed me, but I digress. When I was 26 I started my downward spiral personal walk and decided, against all inner-programming to pierce my ears.

When I’d go to church (because I was not yet the heathen person I am today) I’d wear my earrings. There were two reasons for that: 1) I didn’t feel in my heart that wearing earrings were “bad”; 2) I wasn’t trying to be something I wasn’t. There were times I thought of not wearing earrings to church because I hadn’t worn them all week, but I’d always wear them. I knew that had one of the good church folk seen me wearing earrings, and I took them off for church (out of respect) I would be labeled a “hypocrite” the ultimate in inauthenticity. That was not me, so I wore them (maybe to their offense) to church every week.

[wp_ad_camp_5]To me, being true to myself was more important than what the ‘good’ church folk would think. But to them, was I being inauthentic? Did they look at me and think I was not being true to myself because I was not being true to the church teachings?

The Definition

As I pondered the question I realized I needed to consult the oracles at Merriam-Webster. Although I felt I knew the definition of the word, having someone so strongly berate others made me feel I knew nothing.

Authenticity – Noun – Form of Authentic – true to one’s own personality, spirit, or character is sincere and authentic with no pretensions

Hold up! Did you read that? “True to one’s OWN personality, spirit or character…” What does that mean?

It means that being authentic is being true to yourself. If you’re putting yourself out there in a way that is true to who you are, your character, values, ideas so on and so forth, you are being authentic. The only person who can know if you’re being inauthentic is you.

Being authentic is not based on what I think you should be or do, but on what YOU think you should be or do. When we encounter inauthenticity we know. Something in our spirit tells us. If we’re listening, we tread lightly, if not, we get burnt.

[wp_ad_camp_4]Inauthenticity is when you portray your marriage as the one to be aspired to, but you’re in hell on earth. Inauthenticity is when who you are and what you portray do not align. It’s not when someone looks at you ans says you’re not authentic based on what you’re wearing.

The great James Baldwin says “I can’t believe what you say. Because I see what you do.” Being authentic is when what you say and do are aligned.

My Conclusion

So, after I pondered the post, consulted the oracle and explored my psyche I came up with this: What we say, do or criticize always says more about us than it does the other. Although I knew where the poster was coming from, they showed their insecurity more than anyone elses’ inauthenticity.

We don’t need for others to fail in order for us to succeed. If we stay true to ourselves we’re better off. If I don’t like what someone is sharing, thankfully, I can stop following. I’m also free to stay the course on what I’m working to accomplish. Throwing shade on what you’re doing, because it’s closely aligned to my venture, doesn’t make me better. It means I’m distracted.

In the end I examined myself and found being true to me is my authenticity. Speaking, living & sharing my truth is being authentic.

Go, speak, live and share your truth, no one can tell you you’re not authentic if you’re being true to yourself.