The other day as I was getting dressed I started to feel sexy instantly. I began to feel more excited, confident and sexy as I completed my look and wondered why that was.
As I thought about it I realized there were a number of things I did when I wanted to feel sexy instantly. But was it just me? Couldn’t be, so I posed the question to a few friends on my Facebook Page. Sure enough, many of the things I thought made me feel sexy instantly, also worked for others!
Hallelujah! We can feel sexy instantly with some of the easiest things in the world. . . so here’s my list!
1 – All Things Spa
Getting a pedicure, manicure, facial or massage can make you feel sexy instantly! Maybe it’s because you’re super relaxed, or maybe it’s because you’ve been pampered and that’s enough to make anyone feel super sexy! Do it yourself or get it done, either way, when you’re done, you’re sexy!
2 – Matching Underwear
When you put on a matching bra & panty set it not only makes you feel sexy instantly, it makes you feel powerful! The strongest colors are red and black (I think it’s because of the “naughty” factor) but whatever color you choose will work.
3 – Music
For me it’s Jazz or Soft Rock. For you it may be heavy dance beats or classical music. Whatever the music, cranking it up and allowing yourself to be wrapped up in the tunes will definitely make you feel sexy instantly.
4 – Candlelight
Dim the lights and light the candles. The “mood lighting” will definitely help you feel sexy instantly. Make is a scented candle for added vibes.
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5 – New Hair
There’s nothing like doing something new with or to your hair to help you feel sexy instantly! Color, cut, curl, straighten, no matter the change, if you fall in love with the style you’ll instantly feel and exude sexiness!
6 – Makeup
Specifically focusing on your lips and eyes. Wearing lashes or pluming up your own lashes with mascara will compel you to use your eyes in a different way. Why, because you’ll feel sexy instantly and want to project that.
Wearing red or a bold color lipstick will also entice you to use your lips or even move your mouth differently as you speak. You’ll also want to smile more, that that is a great way to project the sexiness you feel.
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7 – Heels
I know when I want to make any outfit feel sexy instantly all I have to do is is pair it with heels. There’s something about adding inches to your height that compels you to strut, which is a total projection of how sexy you feel.
8 – Glass of Wine
Quietly enjoying a nice glass of wine is an instant sexy booster. You can do it anywhere you’d like (I sometimes find myself working, on the floor in my closet with a glass of wine. Yes, it feels very sexy. Don’t drink? You can get the same feeling by mixing yourself a virgin drink in a wine glass. As my sister once said as she drank her juiced beet, kale and apple drink from a wine glass, “everything tastes better in a wine glass.”
9 – Dressing Up
Putting on an amazing outfit, doing your makeup just right and strapping on some heels will make you feel sexy instantly! Whether you have somewhere to go, or you’ve decided to make & have dinner at home with your bae, dressing up in “the works” will always make the evening worthwhile. Start with this cute black & white off shoulder top 🙂
10 – Food
Chocolate covered strawberries. Chocolate. Sushi. Fries. There are just certain foods you eat that make you feel sexy instantly. It’s not necessarily about the food itself, but about the emotions, company or ideas it evokes.
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11 – Flirting
When I want to feel sexy instantly or I’m already feeling sexy, flirting with my hubby always ups the feeling. Whether it’s your significant other, the waiter or the cute young valet parking your car, flirting will make you feel sexy instantly. There is magic in flirting since it makes both parties feel good, especially when nothing needs to come of it.
12 – Sunglasses
Need I say more?! When you’re ready to go and that last touch, sunglasses, goes on, you feel that instant sexy feeling! One look in the mirror lets you know, you’re right! Find your style, or the fad, throw them on and you’re ready to roll!
Do Them All
For me, the most fun thing is combining a few of these to get maximum float! Wearing bold lipstick, getting totally glammed up and going out for drinks is the ultimate in sexy rush. It’s the reason people go out on dates. It’s the reason married couples need to make time for dating. Feeling sexy in the presence of your significant other is bliss.
I think it may be time to set a date with your man, woman or girlfriends and feel sexy instantly!
Do you have something you do that’s not on the list? We’d love to know what you do to feel sexy instantly! How do you tap into your inner Goddess? Share in the comments below, I’m all for sharing!